Ah, spring, lovely spring. The garden is very daffodilly.
And a bit tulipy.
This community woodland thoughtfully provided a bench for the weary traveller. We sat on it.
Talking of eyes, I discovered recently that Son-in-Law 1 doesn't know the colours of his (two) children's eyes. I was absolutely astounded. We discussed this a bit, and he said, well, it's not important. Which it isn't, but I still can't imagine not knowing - well, the colours of most of my friends' eyes, let alone my children's. As I climbed into bed later that night, I thought to check that my dear husband, whom I've known since 1964, knows the colours of our children's eyes. And he doesn't! (He was keeping that very quiet during the discussion.)
I then thought to mention this to two separate groups of friends. I thought they would all express extreme amazement, but on the whole they all nodded and said "Mmm". One remarked that she couldn't really say what colours her children's eyes were, and then said the same as my SIL: that it wasn't important. And I agree: it's not important. But still...
Now, I'm not claiming special powers - I haven't got much sense of direction, for example and am not good if my computer misbehaves. But on the whole, should I want to think of the colours of my friends' eyes, I just imagine their faces and look at the colour. I mean, it's not an infallible system if it's someone I've only met a few times, but if I know them, I know their eye colour and, come to that, the shape of their teeth and their noses and what their hands are like and so on. Is this unusual, o bloggy friends? Surely not?
It's not that uncommon. It was some time before my husband was sure of the colour of my eyes, but he could have described my nose. His excuse was that as a boxer that was what he focused on!
ReplyDeleteI do like those two tone daffs although as you know, I'm firmly on Team Tulip. From what I hear, deer don't like daffs but do nibble (gorge?) on tulips, so many people have given up on them. Ashley has trouble with deer at her place; they enjoy snacking on several of her plants/flowers. I generally look at/in people's eyes but they are just part of the whole picture so I don't pay attention to their eye color. But those I know well like my kids, brother, John, etc. of course! John-blue, Alison-blue, Ashley-brown, Eric-brown. My two older grandsons have dark brown eyes and the youngest has bluish eyes. (sometimes they look green) Most Scots have blue eyes, right? I would guess blue!
ReplyDeleteNo, it's not true that most Scots have blue eyes. There's a great variation, though not all that many have really dark brown ones.
DeleteYour percentage of blue eyed people is about double the US (27% versus over 50%) and if you put green eyes in with the blue, it's over 80%. Green eyes are very rare here; brown eyes are definitely prevalent.
DeleteOh really? How interesting.
DeleteYes, I THINK I know the family's eye colours, but teeth is what I really latch on to. Perhaps because my father was a dentist, but for whatever reason I notice teeth especially. Clear, discoloured, crooked, orthodontically enhanced, natural ... Our grandson has a very small face and his eye teeth are going to need sorting out I fear - that'll be expensive and uncomfortable times ahead!. We've just had a short break away and the highlight for me was a Botanical Garden we hadn't heard of - it's very poorly advertised by the local City Council, who pay for its upkeep. If ever you're near Whanganui, on the west coast of the North Island of New Zealand, do stop in. It's spacious - unlike city gardens - and had a variety of wonderful areas to explore. It's Autumn here, but not cold yet and the day was perfect.
ReplyDeleteSorry- "clear" should read "clean" - makes much more sense!
DeleteMy loved ones eye color is something I've always paid attention to. I know my siblings, parents, and daughter's eye colors. Probably because we discussed genetics often growing up - lots of science lovers in my family. My friends though? I'd have to think about that.
ReplyDeleteif you spread a layer of the gravel/ stones off the drive on the garden bed the scilla might seed and thrive there. I suspect it is the good drainage they like.
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